June didn't work out quite the way I'd planned. Oh well.
I'm starting to think that unless we're making financial goals - on the whole, we're pretty good at meeting those - I should stop making goals at all. Or perhaps a better approach would be to label things as goals AFTER I've achieved them, similar to the way in which I create to-do lists that consist mostly of tasks I've already completed so that I get the satisfaction of crossing them off.
I don't think I'm doing goals or lists correctly. Can anyone relate?
Here's how I did with my June goals:
(1) Dry June: You may recall that I decided to stop drinking for a month. It was a really good idea for multiple reasons, one being that May was boozy and my liver needed a break. Unfortunately, this effort was a total failure. Okay, not a total failure: I made it about two weeks without imbibing. Then Anthony Bourdain died. I'm not sure why his passing hit me so hard; I've always liked him and respected his work, but I've never been one to get obsessed with celebrities. Like when Prince died, I just did. not. understand. why some of my friends were so upset about the death of someone they'd never met. Now I get it.
Anyway, Anthony Bourdain's death seemed to warrant a toast consisting of several beers. Right after that, the shitty news really hit the fan: I was beside myself upon reading that kids were being separated from their parents at the Mexico/U.S. border. And then the end of June brought the revelation that a Supreme Court justice is leaving, possibly endangering Roe vs. Wade... I'd already been panicking about the state of the country, but this month really put that panic into overdrive. Cue that glass of wine with dinner.
In short, I didn't meet the goal. On the other hand, I did drink significantly less than I did in May, so... yay?
New approach: instead of cutting out the booze completely, I'm going to adopt the approach of only drinking on the weekend. That's a goal I can meet.
(2) Paying off Credit Card #3: We planned to pay off our last credit card by the end of June, thanks to a handful of bonuses, a side hustle, and a family gift. As of today, we have a balance of $1500, but we'll pay that off tomorrow when the last bonus hits our bank account. So we didn't meet the goal exactly on time, but... we're still meeting the goal. I'm calling this a win.
(3) Increase in running mileage: This was not a clear, set June goal. I made it up just now. Turns out that I was super consistent throughout all of June, hitting the trails five days a week and logging a total of nearly 150 miles. My highest-mileage week was 40 miles. I suspect the fact that this was a difficult month played a role here, too. Running helps me process and compartmentalize information, and I was in serious need of processing and compartmentalizing. Running helps calm my mind, and since my mind seems to be in a constant state of worry these days, I'm running more.
I also worked on my goal to be more involved in the running community. I volunteered with the Couch-to-5K group on most weeks, except last week when I had to get my kid to soccer practice. I'll be volunteering with this program again in the fall.
Goals for July (if I dare to make them)
My main goal for July is to just enjoy it. I think I can handle that. Next week we're heading out of town for a mini-vacation, and I can't wait. I need a change of scenery. We're taking our son to a place in the mountains where Fortysomething and I have some history and where I feel inspired. When we come home, we'll be outfitting our house with some much-needed kitchen gear. What we won't be doing this month is obsessing about our debt: we'll make the minimum payments on the student loans, but other than that, our disposable income will be used for fun stuff.
That said, another July goal will be to develop a strategy for debt repayment moving forward. Do we put the student loans on the back burner and build our emergency fund? Do we blaze forward with the loans and leave our little emergency fund as is? Do we try to split the difference? We need some time to think it through.
Lastly, running goals: I'd like to ramp up my mileage a little more (mostly via longer long runs) and select an ultrarun for the fall. For some reason, I've been very hesitant to actually sign up for a race, but given that I'm doing all this training, I need to go for it.
What about you? How did you do with your June goals, and what are your goals for July (if you do goals)?